we are doing pretty well....considering all that is going on. our trial date is August 21st. looks like we may be pleading "no contest" just to get it over with and not have to pay out additional monies to the Attorney. but actually, at pre-trial, the Prosecuting Attorney agreed with my Attorney, that this was bullshit and no charges should have ever been brought against me...so why the plea...we will ask our Attorney why.
on this past Friday at the PPO and Ex-Parte hearing...the PPO was dropped...and the Ex-Parte was modified, showing the house and all bills regarding the house go to him....which I could care less about the house. we had to agree, in order for him to get all of this. oh..and he was still wearing his wedding ring....it made us want to throw up. we now have visiting rights to see our dog...but my friend, whom we are living with, has to call him, and go pick up my dog and bring her over here. at first his Attorney said HE wanted to keep my dog...our Attorney went balistic and said no way...she said if I have to go to family court and sue for the dog...I will :) so he relented and said, yes it is her dog and belongs with her. oh he was being so passive, it was sickening. but...i have to tell you, i have lost quite a bit of weight and am short...and when we went before the Judge...she looked at me...then over at him...and said....now am I to believe SHE physically abused HIM???? also HIS Attorney, looked down at me and asked...are you HIS wife...when we said yes..he got this look of disbelief on his face.
thank you all for your thoughts, prayers, support and love. you have no idea how very much this all means to us. we love all of you so very much and miss you. forgive us for not visiting your blogs at this time....there is just so much going on.
love to all,
"us"
"The truth about our childhood is stored up in our body and although we repress it, we can never alter it. Our intellect can be deceived, our feelings manipulated. our perceptions confused and our body tricked with medication. But someday the body will present its bill, for it is as incorruptible as a child who, still whole in spirit, will accept no compromises or excuses, and it will not stop tormenting us until we stop evading the truth".
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Glad all are well and things are moving in a positive way for you all through all this crap. Glad you got your dog!!
((((safe hugs to all))))
What happens to us women when an abuser husband ends up walking with so little consequence makes me ill too. It reminds me of my past life and my divorce.
BUT I am a free woman today - free in my mind and spirit and the alcoholic I was divorced from is, in my opinion, just a shell of a man. No way to live. I am the blessed one.
So very glad your attorney went ballistic about Scarlett. So glad doggie will end up with you.
I love you,
PG
Hi, gang!
Forgive me for not writing to let you
know that you are continually in my prayers, day after day, and in my thoughts even more often than that.
You know things will work out, just that it takes time.
Peace to everyone there.
US
I am so glad for you, it will be settled about the dog again! And also you don't have to worry about the house anymore! What a relief at this part of the trial(s)!
Safe hugs and blessings!
Barbra
I praise God that you are still all right. You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Remember how much God loves you and so do I. Hold on to hope. Don't let go. God can make a way out of no way my friends. Just keep your hope alive.
I love you!
it sounds like you're getting some validation from many sides. that is wonderful! i hope things go well on the 21st~~ i'll send best wishes your way!
Love you all! Thank you for all the love and prayers and support! I miss all of you!
Love Rainbow for all
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