RAINBOWS AND OCD

Rainbows are special to me.
As a child, I was a bit of a loner, always knowing that I was "different" than my schoolmates. I spent so many summer days, lying in the grass, looking up at the sky. I remember counting the clouds, then counting them again and again and again! Also I remember a berry bush at the side of the "Haunted House". If I wanted...let's say....a quarter to buy some candy at the local store, I would run around the berry bush a pre-determined amount of times, always making sure I remembered that number of runs. Then I would go into the "Haunted House" and ask my Gram for a quarter. If she told me no, the next time I wanted to ask for a quarter, I would add an extra "run" around the berry bush. I rationalized that I had not circled the berry bush enough times to gain that much wanted quarter. I repeated this ritual as many times as it took to get that quarter!

Another ritual that sticks in my mind is pretty bizarre, even for me. Across from the kitchen sink in the "Haunted House", were the steps leading to the upstairs bedrooms. The kitchen spigot leaked....drip...drip...drip. I would sit on the first step and watch the dripping spigot...drip...drip...drip. After awhile of watching and counting those drips, I would challenge myself to tie my shoes before a certain number of drips could fall into the sink.

What was I expecting from these rituals? Freedom from the abuse, I believe. Silly...right? No, not silly...it's Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), a type of anxiety disorder, is a potentially disabling illness that traps people in endless cycles of repetitive thoughts and behaviors. People with OCD are plagued by recurring and distressing thoughts, fears or images (obsessions) that they cannot control. The anxiety (nervousness) produced by these thoughts leads to an urgent need to perform certain rituals or routines (compulsions). The compulsive rituals are performed in an attempt to prevent the obsessive thoughts or make them go away.

Although the ritual may make the anxiety go away temporarily, the person must perform the ritual again when the obsessive thoughts return. This OCD cycle can progress to the point of taking up hours of the person's day and significantly interfering with normal activities. People with OCD may be aware that their obsessions and compulsions are senseless or unrealistic, but they cannot stop themselves.

The symptoms of OCD, which are the obsessions and compulsions, may vary. Common obsessions include:
Fear of dirt or contamination by germs.
Fear of causing harm to another.
Fear of making a mistake.
Fear of being embarrassed or behaving in a socially unacceptable manner.
Fear of thinking evil or sinful thoughts.
Need for order, symmetry or exactness.
Excessive doubt and the need for constant reassurance.

Common compulsions include:
Repeatedly bathing, showering or washing hands.
Refusing to shake hands or touch doorknobs.
Repeatedly checking things, such as locks or stoves.
Constant counting, mentally or aloud, while performing routine tasks.
Constantly arranging things in a certain way.
Eating foods in a specific order.
Being stuck on words, images or thoughts, usually disturbing, that won't go away and can interfere with sleep.
Repeating specific words, phrases or prayers.
Needing to perform tasks a certain number of times.
Collecting or hoarding items with no apparent value.

Yes, you guessed it...this is another one of my Disorders! To this day, I check the locks on the doors at night, a minimum of 6 times, both front and back doors. I can not tolerate misspelling a word or grammatical errors. I count anything striped or squared, and if I lose my place, well, I start all over again. I have racing thoughts every night, as a result, I am sleep deprived. The thoughts are as quick as train boxcars, moving down the tracks at a fast clip. I have many more rituals and they will be discussed by "others" in the future.

There are environmental stressors that can trigger OCD in people with a tendency toward developing the condition. Certain environmental factors may also cause a worsening of symptoms. These factors include:

Abuse - ya think?
Changes in living situation
Illness
Death of a loved one
Work- or school-related changes or problems
Relationship concerns

OCD afflicts about 3.3 million adults and about 1 million children and adolescents in the U.S. The disorder usually first appears in childhood, adolescence or early adulthood. It occurs about equally in men and women and affects people of all races and socioeconomic backgrounds.

Well I'm not alone in this. That "should" make me feel a bit better....but it does not. I hate that I can not stop the thoughts and rituals! I hate that I am so caught up in OCD that it has been one of the "rules" in my life since childhood. Things I "must" do, "things" I can not stop. Oh I have tried the recommended medications prescribed for OCD and none of them have worked for me. The reason....there are the "others". One medication may work for MElinda but not work for Susannah and vice verse. WOW! I think I just made a connection between DID and OCD.

That's all for today.....Rainbow will see you later.




"Child Abuse casts a shadow the length of a lifetime."